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Mar. 3rd, 2005 | 09:21 pm
mood: goodgood
music: The Trenchcoats - I'm Gonna Be

I think the fact that I feel pretty good right now might be a sign of a fundamental change in my outlook on life. I really didn't get much done today. I think I stayed up too late last night. Because of that I was tired today. I was slow out of the gate, and didn't get very far. I didn't really even get down to work at any point. I went to the park. I didn't find any bunnies today. I most often see bunnies in a part of the park fewer people go to, but today there was a woman walking her dog in front of me, and if there were any out, and about the dog probably would have scared them away. Down near where I looked for bunnies there were so many frogs making noise that I actually covered my ears because it was so loud. Before the bunnies, and the frogs I watched what I thought was a snake orgy. I counted at least 4 snakes. Three of them were tied up in the wriggling ball most of the time I was watching. It was hard to get a count because they kept moving around so much. The most heads I could ever see at one time was three. Then a fourth snake moved in, and then shortly thereafter left, but it stayed in the area. After they parted ways they seemed to be chasing each other all over the place, and though I assumed that would be a good time to count them I was wrong. It seemed even harder. There might have been as many as five. I couldn't tell they were all over the place, and every time I glanced away from a group of them to count the others they would change places to the point that I would have to start counting again. It was frustrating yet neat. I also saw another snake when I was looking for bunnies. Don't worry the bunnies would be safe from little non venomous snakes. I didn't even walk much at the park. It was just too tiring.

Then I went, and spent my precious money on pizza. Then I spent more on pita bread, and frozen soybeans. When I got home I wasted time on the net instead of getting anything done. Then I ate, an apple.

Isn't this EXCITING? No it isn't I know that.

My sister called, and what is unusual is that she was actually calling for me. Normally she calls for mom, or dad. I guess it isn't surprising then that she called because she wanted a favor from me. But we had a long fun talk, and after I drove way back across town, and helped her she made me dinner which was nice. I ate too much, and I ate chocolate truffles, and a fortune cookie that said "You have inexhaustible wisdom and power.", and ice cream. I watched a bunch of tv too.

Normally I would feel bad about having a day like that unless maybe it was a day I decided ahead of time to be a day off. I'm trying to rebuild my life, and that takes a lot of will power. I tend to be mad at myself for not getting enough done to change my life. Recently though I came to realize that my feeling bad about things was making it difficult for me to start. I wouldn't want to do anything that felt like work because I felt bad, and I would feel bad because I didn't get anything done. I realized that it was a self defeating cycle. I started just saying to myself you don't need to feel bad you haven't done anything wrong feel good about life, just start working for a few minutes, and then you will feel like a success too. It keeps working better, and better. The more times I use it. Partly because when it works I believe it more.

I've had some success recently in other significant changes to improve my life. I cut out caffeine completely. Most of the the time I manage to avoid things like soda pop, and hot chocolate with refined sugar in them too. Instead of going to bed around 6AM, and getting up in the afternoon very groggy I am getting up around 6AM feeling refreshed, and ready to start my day, and that is even without an alarm. I'm eating more fresh fruits, and vegetables, and less starches, and sugars. It is getting easier to keep my hands out of the cookie jar when I know something is in it. I get exercise almost every day. Often even enough so that sweat is dripping off of me. I'm trying to reduce foods I know aren't that good for me, and replace them with better ones. It's so hard.

One more thing I am trying to change, and so far I feel like a nearly complete failure at it. I want to reduce how much TV I watch a week. For more than one reason actually. The obvious reason is just the time that it takes up that I could be using for better purposes like getting ahead in life, or socializing. Far too often I find myself in a room with family, or friends, but instead of talking we have our eyes glued to the tube. What a waste. We could be bonding, or helping each other out with our problems, but instead we are having our thoughts drained by push media. It is bad for schedules too. I don't want to do anything else until my program finishes. Another thing firmly in my mind about it is something I think I read in "parade magazine" about how the commercial breaks not only break the stream of the show they also break our concentration. Instead of our ability to concentrate being reinforced, and strengthened it becomes hazardous to concentrate because we will just end up disappointed. Think about how a little kid carefully building something with toys will go into a temper tantrum if disturbed. That is how we should rightly feel when a commercial break comes on. I don't think I am giving his theory justice, but in any case I have problems with concentration so I think I would benefit from the lack of disturbing influences like that. I don't feel like I am succeeding because I watched more than an hour every day this week already. Including the whole Oscars thing even though I didn't even feel that entertained. I was just addicted. Why? I don't get it. I need to break my addiction like I did with caffeine. I kept thinking to myself that I would try quitting for a whole week. I don't know if I can do that. I think I can cut back though. I can maybe make a schedule of programs that are allowed this week, and cut a few next week.

Besides all of that I am fretting because my birthday is only about two weeks away, now that I look at the calender I guess it is exactly two weeks away. I'm down about that because I had planned to be living near my girlfriend by then instead of over 1000 miles away. I don't really feel that much closer to doing that. I guess though that I am over a lot of the emotional barriers that were keeping me from making progress there. There were a lot of them so I guess I really have made a lot of progress.

Wish me luck.

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from: 1professorfrink
date: Mar. 4th, 2005 05:33 am (UTC)
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I rarely watch tv. I get by only watching it because I don't like most programming on it. But when I do watch it, it is usually Seinfeld, Simpsons, Family Guy, or some educational thing on Discovery of the History channel.
And umm, good eye, spotting that snake orgy and all.

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from: teknotus
date: Mar. 4th, 2005 09:43 pm (UTC)
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I would probably watch everything you mentioned.

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from: snarble
date: Mar. 4th, 2005 05:51 am (UTC)
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I am so proud of you! You are making all these awesome changes :) I know you sometimes get discouraged if you don't see that you're losing pounds, but know that your body is probably thrilled that you're treating it so well :))
I've been trying too, but I think you've got me beat - instead of quitting soda I've just switched to caffeine free and while I get a lot of exercise walking around campus, I don't often do enough to sweat - but we know I can't stand sweating!
Try not to feel disappointed in yourself because you aren't where wanted to be at this time. Instead look at where you were when you said that and how far you've come since then - you've decided to definitely come here and get back in school, you've done all these things to better your health, you're doing stuff that can help you earn money, etc. You are actively trying to better your life and reach your goals and you should just be really really proud of yourself. Feel happy on your birthday and celebrate where you are and the fact that your life is gonna keep getting better and better. You can keep the goal in mind w/o punishing yourself for not meeting a deadline.
I type too much
but this time I remembered to do it in a comment instead of IMing you all my thoughts and then having you ask why I didn't comment :D
<3<3<3

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Daniel Patrick Johnson

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from: teknotus
date: Mar. 4th, 2005 10:59 pm (UTC)
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I love you. That's what is important.

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from: puncher
date: Mar. 4th, 2005 10:23 pm (UTC)
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I'm sort of sick right now, so I don't have a good way of saying this, but I think you shouldn't ever beat yourself up over being unproductive. I think it's bad cycle- you beat yourself up, then you feel bad and can't do more. I think you should just say, "Why wasn't I productive?" and try to be aware of those reasons.

Not that I'm so good at doing that myself. :)

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from: puncher
date: Mar. 4th, 2005 10:23 pm (UTC)
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And I know you said this in the entry. Did I mention I'm sick? I just mean that it's a good way of living.

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Daniel Patrick Johnson

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from: teknotus
date: Mar. 9th, 2005 10:37 pm (UTC)
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I don't like being sick.

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from: snarble
date: Mar. 11th, 2005 07:05 pm (UTC)
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i love yout

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